Dear 16 y/o Sister:

Does age equate to maturity level? Why do people like to say that age equals to your maturity, and if your "expected" maturity doesn't match your age, you'll be deem as immature or overly mature. I mean, look at my parents, look at my sister, they are childish as fuck, and my sister still has the cheek to ask if I'm really 19 just because I took a bit longer to put the empty ice tray back into place.

Everyone is a completely different individual and we all face different circumstances which shape a totally different us. So what makes people think that our maturity level, or rather the way we look at things, will match their expectation? I'm 19, I'm at an age where, as cliché as it could sound, but it's true, I'm still finding myself, and moulding myself to be the person I will be in the future. There are some areas where I could be even wiser than people my age, and some areas where I'm not. But that does not mean that I'm immature. First of all, who the hell could define who is more or less mature than anyone when they themselves are still alive and kicking and changing every single day, every single second.

So it really pisses me off when my sister question my age when I took longer than I suppose to put back the ice tray. Maybe I was a little fired up and retaliated back by pointing out all her mistakes because I thought that it was the perfect time (I mean like really, it was quite perfect because I was pissed, making things easier for me to say it or else I'm just gonna swallow my displeased inside me and wait for one day where I couldn't contain it anymore and spill it all out, which is btw, way worse).

And we fought, fought about how she doesn't refill the ice tray after she took ice which she replied back and said that she only took like 6 ice, and I'm thinking, "bitch you could have STILL refilled it". And fought with some other things which she then later refer me as "butt hurt" and "PMS-ing".

Oh no bitch you did not.

Since when does putting a "system" back in place equals to butt hurt or PMS-ing? Just because to feed your laziness and have an easy way out in life, you mess up someone else's' routine/order, or causing distress to them. And by simply pointing out your mistakes, you decided to call someone "butt hurt" or "PMS-ing", it really sure does says a lot about your maturity too. Maybe shouting to every question to your parent also display your 16 years old's maturity accurately too.

Lastly, I'm not PMS-ing, there's an emotion called "unhappy". I'm unhappy with you. Reflect, which you have clearly not done so, because I'm done with mine.